Hi onetime
Welcome to SR.
I think it's pretty clear you have a lot of red flags
I got a dui, and i constantly go into work with hangovers so i know its a problem. I know its not normal to drink 4-6 days a week(maybe more in the summer time) and although i enjoy drinking their are aspects of it i flat out hate, but have learned to deal with, i.e. having no money, waking up hungover, even becoming a "good drunk driver".
I came here not really knowing what to do or even if I really had a problem (even tho I nearly died from my drinking). SR helped me to work out a lot of things - hope we can help you too
And yeah - you've put it in quotes so I think you realise there is no such thing as a 'good drunk driver' - I hope that's past tense, onetime.
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