WIworrier:
Okay! Now I know the rest of the story. I fully understand NOW why you want him out. Yes, I have to agree with you. It doesn't sound like he wants to be helped. That's really sad.
BTW: How old is your son?
Maybe if the police show up with everyone there? It just might make your husband realize where his son is leading yawl.
I'm really sorry to hear you are having so much trouble. I wish you the best and hope you and your husband can find resolution to this problem.
TOD