Wow I just got some crazy confirmation about my decisions. Right after I wrote this I called AH's work to see when he was going to see my son today. When I got his department I was told he doesn't work for them and he hasn't been in since Saturday.
He told me last week he got written up for not going to a work meeting and was looking for another job, but wasn't going to quit until he found one. I showed up to pick up some of my things last week thinking I would have to wait for him to get home for a few minutes because I was a little early, but he was already home. I asked him about his day and about work and he said he called in for the day. He lied AGAIN to my face and has mentioned things about work a few times in the last couple days. I'll consider this a sign from God.