Please do check out your local AA meetings....
there you can find lasting sobriety and a host
of friends willing to support your efforts.
I gave up dangerous behaviors once I got sober.
No...I would not be meeting men I chatted with on line.
Nor would I give out personal info to a stranger.
People can get in a world of bad situations from
lonely desperation.
I know I sure did as a drinker. I could have been killed.
Look at the men you meet at your job...find a hobby that
attracts men....join a health club. Plenty of time and men ....
For now....focus on yourself and your sobriety.
Welcome to SR....