Originally Posted by
goldengirl3 
To make matters worse, our relationship has finally ended this year. Her lack of connection with me is no different than when I was a child. And that's a hard pill for me to swallow.
I don't know how I'm going to keep not drinking.
How do you get over something like that? This is who she is and it will never change. How do you deal with it?
You will need to learn forgiveness. I sincerely doubt that you could hold on to the anger and resentments and expect to recover (irregardless of whether your anger is justified or not).