I hope you can see the seriousness of this sitution...I formerly worked at a shelter as their educator and I can tell you that his actions are not "normal" appropriate, or possibly even legal.
You Do qualify for a shelter based on those behaviors alone.Please consider getting help sooner rather than later..he is not in a rational mindset.Be careful, call your local shelter first and come up with a safety plan as leaving is often the most dangerous time.