Hi Phoenix, I am sorry you have had a hard time during the DDH accident and now with the therapist. My mom was in therapy 10 years and I do not think she has recovered from codependency (IMHO).. when I mentioned this to my current therapist she said currently the field has improved and her therapies last 2-3 years max... perhaps, this therapist was no longer able to help you and all this is a gift from HP so you find someone else who is a better fit for you and perhaps has other techniques and approaches that will help you heal faster? Hugs!!