Trust is a huge big word isnt it.
This is probably the biggest area of my life that has affected me so much. Growing up I dont think I ever felt like I had my parents love or affection so I think I grew up a completely cautious person when it came to human beings.
My sister was a cronic alcoholic for many years ( I loved her dearly ) and we also suffered at her cruel words and actions. Trust, faith went out the door. Only you will know if you can be strong enough to live with this. Its a hard road but it would be so much more difficult in a relationship. Im not sure I could do it living with someone but as far as you know he has one year behind him. That has got to show you something. I believe actions say much more than words. It will be a lifelong situation for him, so it would be a lifelong situation for you. At the end of the day sit down and really think about what you want for yourself and your life. The answers will come. Dont sit down and think about what you want for him, that is something he needs to decide.
JJ