Do you think my parents are right to keep this secret?
My sister is pregnant/probably just had her baby. She told my parents explicitly not to tell me anything about it at all. They say it's because she's embarrassed. So now I just feel like I'm left out of the loop on everything. I'm the only person in my immediate family that doesn't get any info on anything. It just makes me feel so excluded. Like I'm not part of my family anymore. Yes, I have been critical of my sister with her past decisions regarding drugs and her abusive boyfriend, but how could I have let that go without saying anything? My parents have been going with my sisters wishes, which is why they separated me from our Thanksgiving meal. I wonder what they will come up with for Christmas. I don't know. For me it sucks that just because my sister tells them to exclude me, they do. I get that it's her personal business but still. What do you think? I'm sitting here so depressed. My mom says she wishes she could talk to me about it but can't.