Christine, Christine, Christine, not sure how else to say this..............just how in the h*ll are you working an AA program if several things are not happening?
1) Attending meetings regularly, with commitments
2) Working the steps, daily
3) Working with a sponsor, daily
4) Being of service to others
My experience has been, if you don't do ALL FOUR, everyday, all of the time, your days are numbered.
Sober so far............is he working a program like the above?
Tom