[B]Boy I'm not sure about that one cwohio, For me I think I would help him with his seizures no matter how much it hurt me. I'd help a perfect stranger if I could. Does he need help when he is having them? If so help him as little as you can but still be there to back him up, you can always just dial a number and help can come for him. It is all up to you really, trust your gut feeling and do what feels right. We do not need to walk away when it is a medical problem, just the other little crap that so hurts us. Have straingth in your self and believe that you will know what to do when the time comes. If it don't work out, well then you know what not to do the next time. You will know what to do when you need to. This is not much, I am no big adviser but I hope in a small way it helps. There are so many other wise people here just keep getting your feelings out and your fears and you will find confort here.
Sending hugs your way, Gemini