Originally Posted by
suki44883 
Why are you so against being honest with your husband? I have always found honesty to be the very best policy. Why not just explain to your husband what has happened and then you won't have this anxiety hanging over your head. The most important issue here is the health of your baby, but anxiety is not healthy, either.
I don't want to jeopardize my marriage, that's why. I have already been through alcohol addiction with him. I used to abuse alcohol but stopped. I don't think our marriage could survive another revelation of this sort.