I think he is dealing with a lot of "stuff" and can only handle so much emotion. I would just back off and let him do what he needs to. Try not to worry about how he is feeling etc. your job really is to worry about your self. I think we are all or have all been depsperate for feed back and want to feel reassured. I think that is why this forum is so helpful!!!!! Get what you need here and allow him to get what he needs there! Give him space and time!