Gosh the things my boyfriend said I said to him the night before got scary. I am normally a happy person...........give me that bottle of wine and oh boy. But he knew it wasn't me and I am sure your guy does too. But take the first step. I think I saved my relationship in time. I am only on day two and it is hard, but I don't want to look back one day and regret that I lost him.....that would kill me. So I will suffer for awhile but things will get better...........and they can for you too! Stand firm.