Wilbucky13,
Yes your are right!!! It is the inability to act...unwillingness...is probably more accurate! Why is this!!!!!! Fear of confrontation? Fear of giving up something (some one) that we want? Fear of being alone and having to start over? I dont know....but I an grateful for being where I am right now and although I needed my HP to step in and take action, I have learned from this and will no longer be afraid of these things!!!!