Buffalo66, Forgive me but what does "GASLIGHT" refer to?
Which one of the temper tantums could you handle the better, your son's or your AH's?! Unfortunately I have heard that a son will use his father as a role model, and vice versa, a daughter will use the mother as her role model. Not necessary so......
You wrote "A has been here for 6 weeks, sleeps all day, stays up all night. does not work, collecting unemployment, doing the minimum, and he says I AM UNSTABLE AND I SHOULD NOT BE LEFT ALONE WITH OUR CHILD." It seems like our AHs know just what buttons on us to push!
I'm in the same boat, wishing and wanting a nice calm Christmas. However.......
If wishes were horses, beggars would ride.
If turnips were watches, I would wear one by my side.
And if "ifs" and "ands" Were pots and pans,
There'd be no work for tinkers!
Take care!