thanks, i think i will start going to meetings and i bought codependent no more, so i should probably read it.
he had told his cousin where all his pills were so they would be gone when we got to his house. but he ended up having to toss a bunch more. i cant believe how much he had. it still amazes me. I didnt spend much time with him today as he has so much to do, but hopefully he stays commited to the program.
i wrote him a letter with all the things i want to say and really havent been able to. I gave it to him as i left. he called me crying saying he wants to do whatever he can to make me trust him and hopes he hasn't ruined things. i told him i am there, but trust is hard and he really has to just focus on getting happy and staying sober. uggh. this is going to be a long road.