It makes perfect sense to me. I often feel like I'm totally off my rocker, but that's probably because I'm still living in a less than steller situation. But yet when I look at "what's wrong with me" I have all the text book answers. I just can't seem to put them into action. I'm working on detachment right now.
This is the link to the e-book version of Women Who Love Pyschopaths, But there are also a print version.
The Institute's Safe Relationships Magazine
There is another good article about doing the same things over and over again.. it was me to a T! I'll look for it if you are interested.