its very difficult living with an addict. I feel your pain and frustrations. I myself could never live with it again.
however, there are some things you can do..try to detach from the drama, keep reading stickies and posts on here about detaching and coping skills.
PLEASE go to meetings, it will get you out and be around others who are
going through the emotional wreck as you are with living with addiction.
leaving the meetings you will feel a huge burden lifted off your shoulders.
also, you might want to start thinking about if you truly want to live together.
I know myself, I fought for many years with thinking what to do, leave or stick it out. I stayed for too long, it was pure torture for me. I always thought things would get better, this cant be happening. I too became angry, frustrated, depressed and many many days didnt want to go home.
I hope you continue getting support on here and meetings,please know your not alone and we are all here for you.