Good Lord~ AH is a maniac. He got so pissed at me that I am holding him responsible for paying $400 of our $1400 a month mortgage . Cussed me out - Oh yea- thats the way to treat someone who pays 3/4 of the bills. He has not looked for a job at all - I have found him some side work and of course he yells at me about how awful it is etc. I told him to go back to school - find a career you want to be in. He tells me to F off. His way of not dealing with anything. My son is moving back home to attend Community College here and AH wants me to charge him rent and make him pay utilities- the kids is 18- full time college student- good kid. He said to me just now that he should only have to pay 1/4 of the electric bill as I have 2 kids and there are 3 of us and 1 of him . It takes money out of his beer money I guess. What grown man honestly would say such stuff. He actually told me to get a 2nd job just now and he has no job period. WTF?