Is this Typical Alcoholic Behavior........
I am detaching from my AH who has lost his job and continues to drink and smoke- although he denies the pot. Is it standard for them to lash out ten fold at you ? According to him I am the biggest B, I am ugly- I am fat- I am not all that I think I am. I am a bad wife.... my kids are aholes- I think am entitled to a great life - provided by him- I make 3 times what he does by the way. I am ungrateful - you name it - I am it~ Oh - and no man in their right mind would put up with me. My gut tells me this is pretty standard and in his twisted mind I will not leave him as I will think I am worthless. It is messing with my self esteem but I know how sick he is so I am trying to ignore it. I am the cause of his whole life being f'ed up. Shame on Me.