I was just thinking about something,how come we think we are so strong and capable of taking care of others besides ourselves? i realised i've been imagining super powers within myself ,for a long while i thought i can talk care of myself and take care of exab ( do all the stuff for him,leng him money,help him study.....etc) now i'm done with all this,i'm no superwoman and i realise it. it's hard enough taking care of me without having to take care of someone else!!! Hope you are where i am.Just take care of you ,it's hard enough.