HUGS Babyblue... !! whatever happens, remember its HP's will and for the highest good.
Also while dettaching, remember you'll have to dettach anyway at some point (even if it's a the time you leave this Earth). You'll have to let go of him, of everyone else, let go of your very life. In the end you'll have to let it ALL go. And this will just be a blink in the Grand Scheme of Things
Have you looked at the Hubble images? they always help to give me some perspective