Youre right transformie. We were only seeing each other for a month. He went from Mr Wonderful to Mr Player in one night. As Nofortoday said I dont want to be at anyone's beck and call and bear the brunt of his insecurity.
I dont know how long it will take to get him off my brain but I can say once the red flag was there I did run the other way. I have to work on NOT getting attached too quickly and handle meeting guys like a business meeting. Check them out and do some screening before allowing my emotions to get involved. That would make it easier on myself. And I would imagine easier to think clearer.