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it sounds to me like he is working his recovery in recognizing the urges and planning to step up his program work.
Yeah, that was the outcome of the conversation, he is anticipating and needs to step up his program, so I guess this is a good thing... and I appreciate how open and brutally honest he is with me, but sometimes it's like, whoa, a little scary, but I'd certainly rather have it than not...just causes me to anticipate and freak a little bit as well.