Old 11-23-2010, 07:13 PM
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Lola1024
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I am going it alone this year (please no pity!!!) LOL. I just mentioned on another thread I am doing this because of my mom's death and the break up with xabf and also I want to use the day to be at peace and reflect on gratitude. I asked myself what I really needed to do for myself for Thanksgiving this year and be at peace in solitude was what I decided. Even with so many loses recently there is plently to be thankful for in my life. There will be no pity party. I feel sad which is ok and understable BUT one must make the most of things. Life has taught me that much this year with some very hard lessons.

I plan to eat my favorite foods, watch movies and snuggle under the electric blanket. I may not even get out of my jammies.

And yes this year I will deal with no drunk drama. I can't even tell you how much of a relief it is .... bet I will say the same thing at Yule and New Years too.

I hope everyone has a great holiday !!!

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