[QUOTE=seekingcalm;2775944 I have learned not to put exact time frames on things because what happened to me was that my exabf would pressure me once the deadline arrived. When you are ready, you will know.
Sending positive thoughts your way
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I like that. Initially, I set a time frame on counseling and it gave me terrible anxiety so I revised that..maybe I will consider giving something a bit more general or just say in thirty days I will CONSIDER (emphasis) marriage counseling. Thanks