Will you be giving up your DOC as well over christmas though?
I personally think you are being a bit hard on her.
My aunty is dying and I would give my high teeth to have one more christmas with her and my baby and family.
If she has a few drinks but knows when to stop is that really a problem?
Sorry if I have misread anything that might make my post wrong or insensitive. Really don't want to come across like that.
Take care
xx