Originally Posted by
Onewithwings 
she doesn't smoke. She made the statement that drinking on our back porch is the same as someone smoking on the back porch.
:rotfxko Only when she smokes on the back porch, she doesn't stagger back in the house, slur "Come here" to one of her grandkids, put the child in a headlock while rubbing his/her head saying "I love ya, ya little f*****er".
Keep those boundaries in place and enjoy a wonderful and peaceful holiday!
Hugs, HG