BabyBlue....thanks. I can relate to what you're saying. I thought if I waited, I'd find the chemistry. I'm glad I stopped waiting. I'm also very independent. I suppose I've had to be..no-one but me and my HP to rely upon. Thanks Hmbld, I'll go with my gut. The 'nice man' said he could offer just a friendship, but it's apparent he wants more that I do. Your guy friend sounds awesome! I love that he goes shopping with you and grumbles. You sound good for each other in a Clayton's husband and wife kind of way....(Claytons is a non alcoholic drink and there used to be an ad over here and it said "Clayton's the drink you're having when you're not having a drink". Now everyone over here calls things Clayton. The Clayton's hubby, the Clayton's boyfriend, the Clayton's wife, the Clayton's best friend, the Clayton's sister etc etc...lol....
