My A claims that in his treatment center, they asked him if his significant other would be drinking alcohol at all at home.
He claims that they do not encourage the significant other to drink.
I have no idea if this is true at all.
He could have completely fabricated that.
I never drink at home, and have not touched a drop since he stopped six weeks ago. It is not a sacrifice for me, but his expectation is odd, considering he feels his recovery choices are his, but he is imposing this on me.
He will not hardline it, just implies that it is frowned upon and it would be weird if I did drink, not in front of him, but at ALL.
His brother, on the other hand threw a Halloween Party at his house on day 8 out of treatment, while my A was staying there. All of As longtime friends and drinking buddies were there.
He seemed to feel that was his brothers right, but called me a begged to come over nonetheless...
I don't care right now, as abstaining from alcohol is no issue for me, and it is doing wonders for my complexion, LOL...
But, I do wonder how he might react if I had a glass of winne at a friends house, even while he was not there.
I know he would smell it a mile away.