Hmm...ask yourself, since I'm not sure of course...but are your boundaries firmly established?
Bad boys won't get anywhere with you if they are firm and secure. There won't be any worries about what's to come later, because you'll see any red flags at the beginning, when you should.
That you ask the question makes me wonder, because you wouldn't need to ask it if they were?
How would you put into words this "not ready" yet? What does that mean when you break it down and put it in concrete words? A question I have been answering in my own mind. If I can't say exactly what it means, then I'm clueless, vulnerable, and a potential train wreck all over again.
There are attractive men everywhere...good boys, bad boys, and everything inbetween.