Originally Posted by
Rekih 
I know from googling that I have in my alcoholic world created an enabling atmosphere and without yelling once or even considering anything worse, have taken life from her. But other than sobriety, how do I help this angel of mine? She isn't saying it, but she must feel so hurt...so angry....so alone....
Hi Rekih-
It's obvious you are taking responsability for your alcoholism. That is a big step and one that can take a long time for some folks.
Also, you say "other than sobriety" how can you help your wife. My friend, you might just be selling sobriety short. That is EVERYTHING you can do for your wife.
Get sober, get well, and everything else will fall into place.
...but I warn you - it's great the love you have for your wife, but this must be done for you and you alone in my opinion.
Kjell