Originally Posted by
wicked 
craven, it could be that he already knows this and will use it, or has used it to shut down any communication. just something to consider.
This bears repeating. It was definitely true in my case. He knew which screws to turn and when things got critical, he didn't hold back. He actually admitted it at one point and that also helped me think of things a little differently. They aren't always quite as helpless and wounded as we have envisioned. They are adults.........looking out for themselves. We better do the same.