absolutely what keith said! i had no idea what or who or anything i was handing my will and my life over to...until very quickly i set out on a vigorous course of action...step 4 in where i could see where my instincts were out of control which led to my defects...but then step 5 where more truth was revealed when i shared with God and another human the "exact nature" of my wrongs....i will still trying to justify etc.but when i sat down with my sponsor and found out the truth i then knew what it was i was handing over.i could see very clearly things that then became objectionable.