Hey Transformy, one other thing I had to remind myself this morning when I was thinking how my BF also sometimes seems disinterested when I am speaking: The world (and how this man behaves) does not revolve around me. Most of what people do day in and day out has Nothing to do with anyone but THEM. I really am not that important at such a micro level. Heck, your man might have ADHD for all anyone knows. You just don't know him well enough yet.