ooh gosh, i was in the same boat as you too....I saw the red flags too....and glad i saw them...but slowly moved ahead with the relationship...and i am glad i did...its the experience i love and the lesson in the end...I still would not change the relationship at all....it is what it is....
just another notch under my belt
...LOL, ooh gosh..but another bites the dust so to speak...LOL, still i keep going....