Mambo Queen, if you have to ask the question...
I remember a lot of your old posts. You have financed this manipulative man for so long. Giving him money now, when he is finally attempting to stand on his own two feet could sabotage his recovery. You're stopping him from being a grown up and dealing with his consequences.
There again, I'm not in your shoes. I just worry that you are getting sucked in again when you seemed to be finally breaking free. Please take care of yourself. :ghug3