I've been without a steady relationship for almost 2 years, with the exception of my weekend dalliances with the ex adn a NSA guy from work. One of my hangups about the new relationship is that I like being by mself and don't want anyone telling me what to do, and don't want another person to clean up after. Nobody is perfect. hell, I know I"m not, and I wonder if I"m making things up to not like. It feels like all those seinfeld episodes where he found something wrong with every woman he went out with.