Been days I had to hold a pillow over my head and scream into it. And I'm not talking about just in the first year.
Yup this too shall pass.... Give yourself a break and take the "me" time to get through to the other side.
I have had bouts of severe headaches... I use advil, aleve, or arthritus strength tylenol. I have a microwaveable heating pad that I put on my forehead and I massage my temples to get the blood flow stimulated. There wree many days I was prone for 3 to 4 hrs at a time just trying to sleep through it.