Originally Posted by
letsgopens 
BTW I have attempted to get her on video but she runs away.
This is an attempt to control the alcoholic's behavior by shaming her/him.
In Alanon we learn the three C's:
We didn't cause the alcoholism.
We can't control the alcoholism.
We can't cure the alcoholism.
We learn to put the focus back on ourselves, and how we can begin to change our own life for the better, despite the alcoholic in our life.
