so true
That poem is so true. We have been feeling that our 18 year old daughter had relapsed but had no proof. Last night she admitted to me she had a felt bad about it. Today she thought things would be back to normal until I told her she had to choose. Her drinking and drugging friends or her family. She chose her friends. Said she would stay if we let her see her friends. we couldn't go down that road again. I think we did the right thing. It was hard but like the poem says, letting go does not mean I don't love you. We have been attending al-anon meetings and they really help