perhaps pair up with a woman next time?
i've run into trouble in open AA meetings, with men who use that as a doorway to get to talk to me. and they go on and on about alcohol, won't shut up really, but the underlying vibe is very different.
perhaps people here will bash for sharing that and say that it has nothing to do with what missb experienced...maybe not...but i find it best to stick to same sex in these meetings.