Thank you all I really appreciate it. I will avoid this man from now on. I go to Al-anon to for the purpose of an Al-anon meeting, not a "let's sit in Al-anon and talk about AA meeting." The weird thing is when we were being paired off by drawing numbers I looked around the room and I just KNEW that I was going to get him for some reason. Then sure enough! I was uneasy about him before we even spoke lol. Anyway I can't wait til Monday for my next meeting!