Hi flowersinhair
To quote
Tuesdays with Morrie: Sometimes our culture teaches us the wrong things. The big things--how we think, what we value--those you must choose for yourself. You can't let anyone determine those for you.
It's not easy. I'm 22. I know. But that's just how it is.
Besides, getting drunk every night is overrated. How many of those "good times" would you remember anyway?
Welcome! Good to have you here