You were just very unlucky to be paired up with such a, may I say it, dweeb. There are always people in both programs, and I have met them, that say things that are opinionated and . They think they know all. If I got frustrated at them or listened to them I would not be where I am today. Find a sponsor or sponsors for the programs bounce things off of...I agree with AA got me sober and alanon is helping me learn life..Thanks Scott