Are they aware of his addiction?If so, are they codependant w/him? - They are aware...I asked his younger brother to please tell them how bad off he is...He called me to tell me he had a meeting with his parents and put it all out there... And my exah's younger brother is a great guy...if he said he put it out there, he did! But my exah's parents are extreme co-dependents... Both my exah and his older brother are active addicts, and as far as I can tell, my exil's don't act as if it's an issue at all. But in their defense, my exfil has terminal cancer, and my exmil is also in poor health...I'm not sure they can emotionally handle two active addicts in addition to their other issues.
But my mother did tell mil that she or fil is to drive the girls...my hope is they will always abide my wishes. If I find they don't, I will remove my daughters for good from their care!