Good on you!
I'm glad you are taking care of yourself and getting face-to-face support. I think you did a great job of speaking up when your assignment got side tracked.
I agree with Lexie that you can benefit from both programs, and you should focus on what seems to be your biggest concern.
I am a double winner.
I did not use AA to achieve my sobriety. However, I do support the program and attend some open meetings.
After I became sober, I was still living with an active alcoholic spouse. I realized I was making myself crazy with trying to control the uncontrollable. I was failing at setting healthy boundaries and I was failing at maintaining my serenity. Alanon has helped me keep my focus on myself.
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Keep doing what works for you!