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Old 10-31-2010, 07:01 PM
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The Big Book suggests we check our motives and our spiritual condition before being around alcohol. If we have a good reason for being there (e.g., office holiday party), and we aren't on shaky ground, spiritually, there's no reason to avoid it.

I've never felt like drinking from being around alcohol, but I find it boring to be around people who are drinking. I'd rather be home reading a good book, or doing something else. I usually make an appearance, socialize for a bit, and leave as soon as I'm decently able to.

But I think it's generally wise for people in early recovery to avoid bars and drinking occasions as far as it's possible to do so, and to always have a backup plan--a way to leave if you need to, some phone numbers of sober friends you can call if necessary.
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