that all sounds good!
i find it helpful to ask myself "what do i want?" and then do it.
enough pandering to the alcoholic. they know what they want - alcohol.
and everything else is second to that.
don't be second seat to a six-pack!
and hey, if he goes grocery shopping and mows the lawn, he doesn't deserve an olympic award for it. those are things normal people do all the time. mine wanted a standing round of ovation if he came home with 1/2 dozen eggs and milk.
not good enough!
naive